BRUISES CAUSED BY BETRAYAL – 

One of David’s boyhood friends was Ahithophel the Gilonite; the grandfather of Bathsheba. David trusted him as one of his closest advisers. Perhaps as retribution for David’s tryst with his granddaughter Bathsheba, and to keep their second son Solomon from becoming king, Ahithophel joined David’s other son Absalom in his rebellion. As a matter of fact, he even asked Absalom for 12,000 men so he could sneak up on David and kill him so the people would swing to Absalom’s side. David learned that sometimes you cannot trust some people, even when they call you friend.

“Deep down in my heart I know what sin can do to someone who loses total respect for our One True God. They get so mixed up that can’t even see how despicable they are. Furthermore, you can’t believe a word they say because they’re only giving excuses for their bad behavior. They lay on their beds at night thinking up ways to hurt people and cause trouble. But O LORD Eternal You are the exact opposite; You are as faithful and trustworthy as the sky is high; neither the tallest mountain nor the deepest valley can compare to Your kindness and the way You treat people, O LORD Eternal, because everyone benefits from the way You care. It’s hard to explain how precious the steadfast love of our One True God is; for it is available to everyone who seeks His help. When they go to Your house they get fed, and their souls are refreshed. For in You is eternal life and the truth that sets us free. Continue loving those devoted to You, and shower blessings on those who want to live right.” Psalm 36:1-10

Reflection: British painter and engraver William Hogarth received a request to paint the portrait of a nobleman who was regarded by others as being just plain ugly. In keeping with his artistic style, Hogarth depicted the subject with the utmost frankness and realism. When the nobleman saw the portrait he refused to pay for it, and a bitter debate ensued. After repeated requests for payment went unanswered, Hogarth finally sent the nobleman a letter letting him know that a well-known showman who specialized in exhibiting freaks and monstrosities had expressed interest in the portrait. The nobleman quickly paid and then burned the portrait. It’s well known that many people do not see themselves or their actions as others do. Sometimes they are blind to how hurtful their words or deeds can be. As the old saying goes, an enemy cannot betray you, only a friend. Betrayal involves a treacherous act towards someone who trusts you. But regardless of how much turmoil it brought, David refused to harbor a grudge. Instead, he focused on the goodness and loyalty of his God and Savior. He did not want to become like them, he only wanted to be more like God.