
09/26/26
I recently watched a panel on a news program predict what the two political parties needed to emphasize to win votes. I wasn’t surprised when one of them said they needed to concentrate on “Affordability!” I wondered if they knew that “affordability” is not an unchangeable concept. It varies depending on circumstances. For instance, if a person prefers a Bentley over a Buick, their affordability is calculated based on their income. The same is true if they prefer Dungeness Crab instead of Tilapia, or must have Filia Menion instead of ground hamburger. In such cases, the buyer must fit the cost into their budget or else go into debt. When it comes to employers, they would have to consider either increasing the price of the product or reducing the number of their employees. If they increase prices, then consumers are taxed to provide employees with higher incomes. That means that they have less money to purchase other needed items. And the only way any candidate can make such a promise is if they are ready to vote for “price controls,” which means no enterprise wants the government to tell them how much to charge for their product. Let the free and competitive marketplace determine that.
So, what do we call a person who uses your dreams and desires to keep you emotionally invested right now? Or do they have no genuine intention or actual capacity to fulfill those promises? When people promise outcomes they genuinely believe they can deliver—but objectively cannot control (like stock market returns, health outcomes, or sports scores)—it is driven by cognitive biases. It is the tendency for some people to overestimate their ability to control external, random events.
Psychologists tell us that for such people, their subjective confidence in their judgments is more reliably greater than their objective accuracy. In other words, what they say will happen without their involvement. Many times, such people are so in love with themselves that they use false promises to avoid confrontation, deflect current criticism, and feed their need for admiration. They will tell you exactly what you want to hear to maintain power and superiority over the relationship. They are eager to please or want to ease tension in the moment, but lack the emotional self-control, structural organization, or stability to follow through when the time comes.
When I switched to thinking about what the Bible had to say about such persons, immediately the words of Jesus came to mind: “What profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?” [Mathew 16:26; Mark 8:36]. The Bible strongly warns against promising outcomes you cannot control, viewing it as a form of pride and a failure to recognize God’s sovereignty. Because human beings have zero control over tomorrow, the Scriptures urge us to avoid making absolute claims about the future.
The most direct address to this behavior is found in the Book of James. It rebukes people who plan future business success as if they control the elements: “Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.’ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.’ As it is, you boast in your arrogant schemes. All such boasting is evil.” (James 4:13-16). Furthermore, in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus explicitly commanded his followers not to swear oaths by things they do not own or control. He points out how powerless humans truly are over physical reality: He said, “Do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from the evil one.” [Matthew 5:36-37].
The Old Testament frequently cautions against speaking too fast and promising outcomes before evaluating whether you can actually guarantee them. Ecclesiastes 5:2: “Do not be quick with your mouth, do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God. Proverbs 20:25: “It is a trap to dedicate something rashly and only later to consider one’s vows.” The underlying biblical principle is that only God has the authority to guarantee an outcome, because only He controls the future. When humans try to do this, they are attempting to act like God. Proverbs 16:9: “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” Proverbs 27:1: “Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.” So, we need to be careful what we promise from the pulpit or around the dinner table at home. Remember, God is listening!
